When it comes to kink, everyone is always so fond of saying that it is wrong to judge. “Your kink is not my kink, but your kink is OK.” Well, I am here to call bullshit on that. Not only do we have a right to judge, we have a responsibility, both to the community and to ourselves.
Let’s start with ourselves. Face it. Judgment is fun. It allows us to feel superior and in today’s world there is precious little of that. With the decline of crazy talk shows and bad TV dramas, we have fewer and fewer places to render moral judgments and feel superior to others.
Now the community. For too long, we’ve been outsourcing that work. It is time to keep it in the community. This is a chance to feel good again about what we do at the expense of others.
It is natural and healthy to scapegoat others. Tolerance and acceptance are myths created by people who do inappropriate shit to make you feel bad about judging them. Well, I say no more!
Human civilization has been scapegoating people for millennia. Why do we think we are somehow superior to every other generation.
So get out there, find someone who is different and shame them and judge them until you feel good about who you are and what you do.
Stop denying yourself and let loose. You know you want to. It’s only natural!